Of course it is. Good food and better company? It's one of the best combinations ever thought up for dates. But, it's not a necessity considering we do have a fair amount of nature that can be the backdrop for an equally good time.
[Though, if an event that involving dressing up does happen, Stolas is there in his finest with Gold on his arm in a heartbeat. If there's a reason to show up and show off, he's there.]
[ Gold is somewhat relieved; his playbook is a little dated, to be certain, and he wouldn't know what to do if he couldn't lean on the more old-fashioned to start. ]
The best place to begin then. Tried and true first, then more adventurous when it feels right.
[That is exactly the entire point of taking it slow. Stolas doesn't want to mess this up so and if that means taking their time to really get to know one another, than he is willing to put in the effort.]
Which means we might wish to think about where to go on a date at some point. We are limited in eating out options.
With no pressure, of course. We already like spending time with each other.
[ But there is something more special about, just wanting to exist in the world with someone. Silly to say it's showing them off, but in a way, it is. ]
[There is definitely something special about just being around someone you like. Especially when it doesn't take some grand gesture to keep their attention or gifts or deals. It's just being with them that makes everything else so special.]
Perhaps we could have a few dates doing something we both like?
[ It makes the other things more special. But he does like being able to find those grand gestures. There are a lot of things here, though, that make the situation feel new and different, make him less certain what that even looks like now. ]
My thoughts exactly. Hardly a need for a special occasion. Though...I would like to find some.
I'm sure we can find the perfect special occasions to celebrate. I mean, if we manage to be together a year, then it would definitely count as a special occasion to celebrate.
[It's an example that Stolas is hoping may come true. They would see in a year..]
But, for a typical date, I'd be happy just going for a walk in the woods with you if we wanted to keep it very simple.
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[Though, if an event that involving dressing up does happen, Stolas is there in his finest with Gold on his arm in a heartbeat. If there's a reason to show up and show off, he's there.]
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The best place to begin then. Tried and true first, then more adventurous when it feels right.
[ That's the whole point in taking things slow. ]
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[That is exactly the entire point of taking it slow. Stolas doesn't want to mess this up so and if that means taking their time to really get to know one another, than he is willing to put in the effort.]
Which means we might wish to think about where to go on a date at some point. We are limited in eating out options.
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[ But there is something more special about, just wanting to exist in the world with someone. Silly to say it's showing them off, but in a way, it is. ]
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[There is definitely something special about just being around someone you like. Especially when it doesn't take some grand gesture to keep their attention or gifts or deals. It's just being with them that makes everything else so special.]
Perhaps we could have a few dates doing something we both like?
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My thoughts exactly. Hardly a need for a special occasion. Though...I would like to find some.
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[It's an example that Stolas is hoping may come true. They would see in a year..]
But, for a typical date, I'd be happy just going for a walk in the woods with you if we wanted to keep it very simple.
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